I host my sites at tektonic.net, which provides cheep usable virtual private servers (VPS) running linux. 
For the most part, they have been very good; however they occasionally need to restart my virtuozzo
VPS, and for some reason (unbeknownst to syslog-ng), some services will not start (like atd, wtf?). So I gave up on the sysvinit, and 
moved to daemontools.
I rationalized some of the daemontools startup scripts that I found online and archived them. So now daemontools
supervises most of my processes, making sure that they run, even if they fall over, which matters a lot (to me) for things like SSH....
  PID TTY      STAT   TIME COMMAND
    1 ?        Ss     0:01 init [2]      
24177 ?        S      0:06 /usr/lib/postgresql/8.1/bin/postmaster -D /var/lib/postgresql/8.1/main -c config_file=/etc/postgresql/8.1/main/postgresql.conf
11894 ?        S      0:02  \_ postgres: writer process   
11898 ?        S      0:01  \_ postgres: stats buffer process  
11901 ?        S      0:02      \_ postgres: stats collector process 
29836 ?        Ss     0:00 /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
29837 ?        S      0:00  \_ /usr/bin/logger -p local0.info
29838 ?        S      0:00  \_ /usr/bin/logger -p local0.notice
29839 ?        S      0:00  \_ /usr/sbin/fcgi-pm -k start
27869 ?        Sl     0:01  |   \_ python /var/www/domify.com/website.py
29847 ?        S      0:00  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
29849 ?        S      0:02  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
29850 ?        S      0:02  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
29852 ?        S      0:00  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
29870 ?        S      0:02  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
30381 ?        S      0:02  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
22106 ?        S      0:00  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
22110 ?        S      0:00  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
22111 ?        S      0:00  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
30510 ?        S      0:00  \_ /usr/sbin/apache2 -k start
23946 ?        Ss     0:00 /bin/sh /usr/bin/svscanboot
23948 ?        S      0:00  \_ svscan /var/lib/svscan
23950 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise tinydns
23960 ?        S      0:00  |   |   \_ /usr/bin/tinydns
23951 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise log
23962 ?        S      0:00  |   |   \_ /bin/sh ./run
23956 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise atd
23958 ?        Ss     0:00  |   |   \_ /usr/sbin/atd -d
23957 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise postfix
23959 ?        Ss     0:00  |   |   \_ /usr/lib/postfix/master
24028 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ qmgr -l -t fifo -u
 5799 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ pickup -l -t fifo -u
12242 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ anvil -l -t unix -u
15531 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ trivial-rewrite -n rewrite -t unix -u
16119 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ cleanup -z -t unix -u
16137 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ local -t unix
18384 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ cleanup -z -t unix -u
18394 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ local -t unix
19669 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ smtpd -n smtp -t inet -u
19674 ?        S      0:00  |   |       \_ smtpd -n smtp -t inet -u
24036 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise ssh
24038 ?        S      0:00  |   |   \_ /usr/sbin/sshd -D
22292 ?        Ss     0:00  |   |       \_ sshd: dorkbot [priv]
22295 ?        S      0:00  |   |           \_ sshd: dorkbot@notty
22296 ?        Rs     0:00  |   |               \_ ps faxwww
24037 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise syslog-ng
29898 ?        S      0:00  |   |   \_ /sbin/syslog-ng -F -p /dev/null
24040 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise dnscache
24041 ?        S      0:00  |   |   \_ /usr/bin/dnscache
24042 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise log
24043 ?        S      0:00  |   |   \_ multilog t ./main
28356 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise cron
28357 ?        S      0:00  |   |   \_ /usr/sbin/cron -f
19878 ?        S      0:00  |   \_ supervise proctitle
23949 ?        S      0:00  \_ readproctitle service errors:....................
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This looks good, however, daemontools doesn't supervise postgres (not sure I want to automatically restart it upon crash), and apache, which 
as far as I know doesn't have a remain-in-foreground option. Which means I may move to lighttpd, as I don't really need all of the apache craziness.